EMDR THERAPY FOR MEN IN HOUSTON, TX
GET BACK YOUR EDGE
TAKE BACK YOUR LIFE
The longer you wait, the higher the cost.
The porn use, anger, or hidden spending is starting to take over.
You've tried to control it through discipline, working out, or putting your all into work. That helped, for a while.
But it comes back. It always does. And every time, you feel your control slipping, and the urges pull you in deeper.
Every week unchecked only increases your risk. Your energy is spent managing something that only grows the more you try to control it.
WHY WILLPOWER DOESN’T WORKYour problem isn't discipline. It's a storage issue.
The behaviors you're dealing with, whether secretive behaviors, rage, performance problems, or gambling, aren't signs of weakness. They're often symptoms of unwanted or unpleasant memories improperly stored in your brain.
EMDR therapy gives your brain a structured way to retrieve the memory, close the loop, and store it in the correct place.
Once this happens, the memory stops driving your behavior, and you can regain focus on your work, relationships, and life. You can confidently make clear-minded decisions, knowing you’re back in the driver’s seat.
EMDR THERAPY CAN BE EFFECTIVE FOR:
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ANGER
Snapping, short fuse, repeated incidents needing apologies
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ADDICTION
Porn, gambling, excessive spending or high-risk, secretive behaviors
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STRESS
Work that follows you home, falling behind, difficulty relaxing or staying focused
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SEXUAL ISSUES
Erectile dysfunction, performance anxiety, or intimacy problems
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DEPRESSION
Checked out, just going through the motions, or no longer enjoying activities
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PTSD
Military experience, assault, near-death experiences, or intrusive images
BUILT FOR HOW YOU OPERATE
A structured, efficient process that feels measurable and concrete
No need to explain or remember every detail of what happened
You stay in control of the process, and don't have to guess what’s coming
Results without feeling emotionally exposed for hours or days
A clear sense of progress after each session
WHY EMDR WORKS FOR MEN
HOW EMDR WORKS
Stabilize
We prioritize control and confidence, so EMDR doesn’t disrupt performance. Sessions can be scheduled to minimize interference with the workday.
PRIORITIZE
We pinpoint the specific experiences driving the reactions, behaviors, or patterns, then prioritize what to address first
ACTUALIZE
EMDR’s protocol has been shown to reduce or resolve symptoms more quickly than talk therapy. You end sessions feeling like you accomplished something.
TWO OPTIONS. SAME OUTCOME
Results on your timeline.
TARGETED EMDR SESSION
Ideal for:
A single, well-defined issue (recent event, defined trigger, or past memory)
Maintaining daily responsibilities while making steady progress
Men who thrive on consistent structure with varying intensity
Fewer sessions. Faster resolution.
EMDR INTENSIVE
Ideal for:
Concentrated progress in a compressed timeline
Demanding schedules where weekly sessions aren’t feasible
Men who respond well to focused periods of intensity followed by longer integration
EMDR THERAPIST FOR MEN IN HOUSTON, TX
Guy Felder, LPC-Associate
Working under the supervision of D. Scott Stanley, Ph.D., LPC-S
Most therapists miss this when working with men:
Therapy won’t feel truly “effective” to men if its side effects impair focus and performance – even short-term.
That's why I often recommend EMDR therapy for men in demanding roles.
I make sure you can absorb the work without it bleeding into your career, relationships, or ability to lead. Then we can turn up the intensity and accelerate results.
This approach allows you to maintain your edge while still getting results from therapy.
Therapy shouldn't cost you what it's trying to fix.
HOW TO GET STARTED
Start with a complimentary consultation. We'll identify what's driving the issue, what’s at stake, and whether EMDR is the right fit.
When you’re ready to move forward, you’ll get to book my first opening. Most clients begin within 1-2 weeks.
FAQ: WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOW ABOUT EMDR
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We’ll focus on stabilization before moving to more complex targets. Some resolve faster than expected; others may take longer. The goal is noticeable progress over time. EMDR Intensives are available for men who want quicker relief without a weekly commitment.
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EMDR sessions are $265 for 90 minutes. EMDR Intensives are available for men who want faster progress in fewer sessions, with pricing starting at $575 for 3 hours. Most men see meaningful movement within a focused number of sessions.
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Usually not. We pace the work so you remain fully functional in your career and life. You’ll be informed of how EMDR may impact you after the session, so you can determine how to best plan for treatment. Additionally, we can schedule EMDR sessions around work or important events, so you can still progress on your EMDR treatment without slowing down or disrupting your workday.
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Traditional therapy often focuses on insight, processing, and discussion, which isn’t always effective for men, especially those who have unconscious memories driving their behaviors or simply don’t find talking about issues effective for them. EMDR focuses on memory reconsolidation and resolution, helping your brain fully process and clear what’s disrupting work or life. You get results sooner and feel relief faster, without having to talk through every detail.
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No. EMDR does not require you to fully explain or relive every detail of difficult memories or unwanted experiences. We focus on what’s necessary to resolve it, nothing more.
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No, and we don’t need to give it a label. If there’s something that is affecting your reactions, decisions, mindset, or performance, it’s worth addressing with EMDR.